Being in Love.

People have different ideologies of What is love?

But in every ideology, There lies a common point ( Love is always for a lover.)

But, Love according to me is your very being.

Or you can say ‘Love is inside not in a lover.’

Most people think they need a lover to love,

But the thing they lack is love itself, So If you can’t feel love inside you, cannot feel the radiations of it in you , The beauty of it than the so called ‘love’ is lacking in you and you go on searching for a lover, thinking that you know what love is. When you meet your lover, things don’t go the way they were supposed to go because at the end if you don’t have love, how can you share it?


After all what you have, can be shared only.

And all of us have more misery than love so, most of the time we end up sharing our misery, our loneliness with a lover because You cannot share love if you don’t have it inside.

Before , finding someone to love.

See inside you, Is there any love there or just loneliness which you want to share with somebody?


Thanks for reading,

Hope you have got the essence behind this.

Ransher✌️

8 thoughts on “Being in Love.

  1. My mom always told me that I could not begin to love another person until I love myself. I thought that was silly so of course because I didn’t love myself I looked for it in other people. I went through a lot of abuse and dark time. But then I got pregnant with my son and knew I needed to change something so I was better for him. I have so much love for myself for surviving what I went through and am happily married with 3 wonderful children. You really do need to have love inside in order to love on the outside.

  2. U cannot compare love with others !!
    What u feel from ur heart ,that is love ,or maybe u can just call it as attraction , which may never last of long time !!
    Good post mate ✔️ 💯

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